Posted: Fri Nov 05, 2004 9:56 am
Not to get back on the long fights issue, but, well I am....
I am not one to make suggestions that would just benefit myself. I honestly thought this was a good idea. I could think of a hefty list of reasons why it would improve things for a lot of people and no reasons at all why it would make things worse. The sarcastic reactions I got to it were surprising and discouraging. JB's reaction, in particular, I found upsetting, basically "stop whining or we'll ignore you". As a fighmaster I think he has a responsibility to act a little more politely to people honestly offering up suggestions. Or, well I guess he doesn't. I didn't get any constructive discussion of the idea other than "ain't broke don't fix it" or "you're being selfish suggesting something that would benefit yourself" or "go to somesongs". F'r cryin out loud.
Songfight is a great, great thing. But it heavily leans in favor of people with nothing else going on in their lives. I'm not just talking about myself here. I can think of five occasions off the top of my head where I had an exchange similar to this in the last year:
ME: (to a fellow songwriter) There's this great place called Songfight. You should check it out. (explains Songfight)
HIM: Wow, that sounds so cool! I'm going to check that out!
ME: Yeah! Your stuff is good, and since you're telling me you wish people could hear your stuff, this is a perfect opportunity!
HIM: Yeah, maybe I will! So... you say the titles last for one week?
ME: That's right
HIM: Never any longer?
ME: Occasionally ten days, but you never know in advance.
HIM: My band only practices about that often. We could never get something together in that time. We all have other lives, too. Oh well... (promptly forgets all about Songfight)
Anyway, I'm not really taking it personally, I'm just discouraged that I can't participate very often and have to sit on the sidelines week after week.
I am not one to make suggestions that would just benefit myself. I honestly thought this was a good idea. I could think of a hefty list of reasons why it would improve things for a lot of people and no reasons at all why it would make things worse. The sarcastic reactions I got to it were surprising and discouraging. JB's reaction, in particular, I found upsetting, basically "stop whining or we'll ignore you". As a fighmaster I think he has a responsibility to act a little more politely to people honestly offering up suggestions. Or, well I guess he doesn't. I didn't get any constructive discussion of the idea other than "ain't broke don't fix it" or "you're being selfish suggesting something that would benefit yourself" or "go to somesongs". F'r cryin out loud.
Songfight is a great, great thing. But it heavily leans in favor of people with nothing else going on in their lives. I'm not just talking about myself here. I can think of five occasions off the top of my head where I had an exchange similar to this in the last year:
ME: (to a fellow songwriter) There's this great place called Songfight. You should check it out. (explains Songfight)
HIM: Wow, that sounds so cool! I'm going to check that out!
ME: Yeah! Your stuff is good, and since you're telling me you wish people could hear your stuff, this is a perfect opportunity!
HIM: Yeah, maybe I will! So... you say the titles last for one week?
ME: That's right
HIM: Never any longer?
ME: Occasionally ten days, but you never know in advance.
HIM: My band only practices about that often. We could never get something together in that time. We all have other lives, too. Oh well... (promptly forgets all about Songfight)
Anyway, I'm not really taking it personally, I'm just discouraged that I can't participate very often and have to sit on the sidelines week after week.