fluffy wrote: ↑Thu Jun 25, 2020 12:43 pm
Yeah, and I've noticed a long-term tendency for people to try to be "nicer" by saying "sorry, not my thing" instead of being, like, "this sucks." Like, "sorry, not my thing" is such a non-review as to be useless.
This is precisely the reason I posted no real reviews for Nur Ein this year. I've adopted the say something nice or say nothing at all approach, which is absolutely useless if people want to improve, but I'm not sure they do. Plus, they vote in the final, so you don't want to piss them off too much!
I used to be pretty harsh with reviews. Part of me just grew up and realized different people like different things. I know I hurt some feelings and I regret that. I also know I helped some people get better, but it could have all been done more constructively.
Lunkhead wrote: ↑Thu Jun 25, 2020 2:04 pm
I learned real quick that some things that I thought sounded fine in fact did not. Plugged-in acoustic guitar: just don't. Fake drums: avoid the uncanny valley. Singing: have good pitch or use autotune, or forget it. Flabby/farty bass: No. Muddy mixes: No. etc. etc.
I still remember you giving me a hard time about recording my acoustic guitar through the pickup for "Tracks for Future Practice." You have to remember that sometimes it's just about expediency in a weekly competition. But anyway, I disagree with you about autotune. I'm not saying I never use it but I'm generally okay with the amount and frequency with which I sing out of tune. That's rock and roll.
Lunkhead wrote: ↑Thu Jun 25, 2020 4:22 pm
I generally think that too but for a while now I have started to think that may be a generational thing, and the whole "tearing you down to toughen you up" vibe I had/have with my siblings/friends was not something that Millenials/Z/etc. grew up with. Maybe some younger folks could weigh in about it (not to ask you to "represent your generation" but just to speak from your own personal experience).
This is absolutely true. And it has a lot to do with how parents parent and how teachers teach. Which is why I can't wait to fucking retire.
Paco Del Stinko wrote: ↑Thu Jun 25, 2020 6:49 pm
I never got slammed bad by Blue, but can remember how "phew" it was when I got a positive comment on something I did. Shit, I even got to contribute a bass line to a Supercar song!
And that's how you know it was sincere. If he complimented everything, you'd never trust he was being sincere. I tell this to my students a lot.
So let's just all get back to posting old school reviews! It will be fun. There will be some tears, but in the end, Sam will be okay.